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Evo said:You're doing the right thing Enigma by giving her the space she feels she needs. You're an amazing guy to be this sensitive and caring.
Totally. Even I'd date you, Enigma.
Evo said:You're doing the right thing Enigma by giving her the space she feels she needs. You're an amazing guy to be this sensitive and caring.
enigma said:She called. Crisis averted.
No problem with the age, if it is meant to be then who cares. Does she have a boyfriend and would you say you are good friends?graphic7 said:I suppose I'm also trying to get a sample of how many of you view a girl in a relationship with a younger guy as taboo.
One and a half months is not long enough. I know with my girlfriend that if I had of ask one and a half months into know her then she would most likely not have gone out with me but we were very, very comfortable. You have to get very comfortable and get it to a stage were you notice she is trying to be around you.graphic7 said:She's single, I'm certain. We've only known each other since the fall semester started, so that'd be roughly, one and half months. I guess, I should get to know more about her before I ask her out. At the moment, I really don't know too much about her, other than she's absolutely stunning.
That is what you must do but try and twist the conversation onto her or you and talk about yourselves more, but without her realising she is (if you see what I mean).graphic7 said:She acts pretty comfortable around me. We talk, just average chit-chat, nothing special.
You need time. I saw my girlfriend once a week for about 3 hours and that was with other people around her all the time. I showed that I liked her by trying to be around her and it took 5 months for her to finally realize she liked me.graphic7 said:I suppose the main problem is that we don't see each other very often. I see her in class, and occasionally walking down the halls, where we always great one another and that sort of thing.
No problem. That is what we are all here for.graphic7 said:Once again, thanks.
graphic7 said:There's this girl in my Calculus III class, and without a doubt she's probably the most beautiful girl I've seen.
Gokul43201 said:Without a doubt, this is probably the best line I've read in this thread.
graphic7, I think you should talk her into getting back to attending class, or she'll mess up her grades.
I think she just wants TUTORING... nothing more. If you do more, you'll eventually lose TUTORING money from her and self-esteem. So why bother? Also, TUTOR her in a public place, just so your little buddy wouldn't jump out of your pants.graphic7 said:My problem varies slightly from the original topic of this post.
There's this girl in my Calculus III class, and without a doubt she's probably the most beautiful girl I've seen. Only problem, I believe she's slightly out of my reach. When I say slightly, I'm really exagerating the magnitude of how dire the situation appears at the moment.
Problem is, I'm roughly 3 years younger than her, I don't even drive (I'm not joking), and I still live with my mother. I'm not saying that I'm a bum. It's just that I'm 16, therefore, these various attributes that I'm missing conflict with my age - making the chance of me and her seem slim to none.
We do talk quite a bit, and she's even made the offer to me that she needs tutoring in Calculus (she stopped showing up to class, so I haven't confronted her about accepting the tutoring offer). She also sits beside me in class (when she does show up).
Should I ask her out, or should I just stop fantasizing and concentrate on more important things?
I suppose I'm also trying to get a sample of how many of you view a girl in a relationship with a younger guy as taboo.
PrudensOptimus said:I think she just wants TUTORING... nothing more. If you do more, you'll eventually lose TUTORING money from her and self-esteem. So why bother? Also, TUTOR her in a public place, just so your little buddy wouldn't jump out of your pants.
PrudensOptimus said:Also, TUTOR her in a public place, just so your little buddy wouldn't jump out of your pants.
graphic7 said:Should I ask her out, or should I just stop fantasizing and concentrate on more important things?
Math Is Hard said:When I was 23 I dated a 17 year old briefly. The fact that it was illegal in my state added to the appeal.
graphic7 said:Yeah, but I still think there's a stigma about dating younger guys, especially when both parties are in their teens. Agree or not?
Moonbear said:graphic7, I'm not sure from your description if she would be receptive to the idea of a date or not. Yours is a tough call. If she's a chem major, yes, she needs Calc III, so you could always contact her, let her know you noticed she's been missing class, ask if everything is okay, let her know you're willing to help tutor her if she is still interested, and use that as an opportunity to just get to know her better. Right now, it seems you don't really know much about her other than that she's physically attractive. Until you know if there's anything beyond that, no point getting too crazy about her. If she takes you up on the tutoring offer, you'll be able to gauge things better as you interact with her more. If she keeps it all about studying, then you'll know. With this one, I suggest you aim for friendship first and see if it develops into anything else, otherwise, you'll at least have a good friend.
PrudensOptimus said:Also, TUTOR her in a public place, just so your little buddy wouldn't jump out of your pants.
Moonbear said:Oh, c'mon, you know full well those little buddies don't care whether you're alone or in public! Fortunately, calc textbooks are quite large to carry such that they can conceal such things. (Did you really think women don't notice when you need to carry your 3-ring binder in front of you?) That may also be the primary reason men are willing to dress up in suits for dates...a buttoned suit jacket, provided it is tailored properly long enough, will conceal all that you need concealed.
I think the best cover up for this comes from a comdy sketch by Billy Connolly. Simple stand up and shout that you have your 'buddy' standing up and then everyone else will be embarrased and not look. Works a charm, I know because my friend does it all the time and I have got used to it but everyone else looks horrified. It is hilarious.PrudensOptimus said:Also, TUTOR her in a public place, just so your little buddy wouldn't jump out of your pants.
The Bob said:I think the best cover up for this comes from a comdy sketch by Billy Connolly. Simple stand up and shout that you have your 'buddy' standing up and then everyone else will be embarrased and not look. Works a charm, I know because my friend does it all the time and I have got used to it but everyone else looks horrified. It is hilarious.
The Bob (2004 ©)
So would I. It was just an example of how embarrasing everyone else can work in your favor.Moonbear said:I would highly discourage this approach while on a date.
Moonbear said:I would highly discourage this approach while on a date.
Even better than mine. Silent Embarrasing. Genius.gazzo said:Carry around a calculus book during your date
Or just don't wear any pants, that way nobody will look anyway.
Carry a Calculus book?gazzo said:Carry around a calculus book during your date
Or just don't wear any pants, that way nobody will look anyway.
PrudensOptimus said:Carry a Calculus book?
The Calculus I - V book by Stewart weighs at least 20lbs...