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I would avoid talking to her on the phone that long. Your conversation will potentially suck on the second date now, what will you talk about, stuff you already talked about on the phone? Save the talking for the date.
I disagree, I used to talk 8-12 hours non stop (seriously) with boys I dated and we still had plenty to talk about on dates.cyrusabdollahi said:I would avoid talking to her on the phone that long. Your conversation will potentially suck on the second date now, what will you talk about, stuff you already talked about on the phone? Save the talking for the date.
That is a great sign! Being able to carry on long conversations over a range of topics is awesome!rocketboy said:Oh, it wasn't one conversation. We covered a multitude of topics in that time! It was like a hundred conversations in one!:tounge1:
I disagree, I used to talk 8-12 hours non stop (seriously) with boys I dated and we still had plenty to talk about on dates.
I'd pull "all nighters" on the phone.cyrusabdollahi said:Just don't be fake. That way she likes the real you.
Wow, the longest phone conversation I probably ever had with anyone in my life topped out at around 45mins, and that was really pushing it. I keep my cell phone on 'off mode'. Its on if I need to make a call, and that's it, hehe.
I guess you haven't met the right woman yet then. When you fall head over heels for someone, you'll talk for hours too, just you wait and see.cyrusabdollahi said:Just don't be fake. That way she likes the real you.
Wow, the longest phone conversation I probably ever had with anyone in my life topped out at around 45mins, and that was really pushing it. I keep my cell phone on 'off mode'. Its on if I need to make a call, and that's it, hehe.
I think I may have replaced those long phone conversations with emails and forum posts. I miss those crazy conversations that go along with meeting someone new.GeorginaS said:Go rocketboy! See? Courage.
This thread is almost giving me hope that that meeting new people thing might be kind of fun. I remember sitting up all night with someone I'd just me, talking non-stop about nothing and everything. What a great feeling.
rocketboy, I'm voting for "the long conversations are good" side. Because they are good.
You see, some of us have this condition... it's called being "outgoing", or "extroverted"...Just don't be fake. That way she likes the real you.
Wow, the longest phone conversation I probably ever had with anyone in my life topped out at around 45mins, and that was really pushing it. I keep my cell phone on 'off mode'. Its on if I need to make a call, and that's it, hehe.
Oh NO! Can you get treated for that?Hurkyl said:You see, some of us have this condition... it's called being "outgoing", or "extroverted"...
I didn't know you were into that sort of thing! Does this have something to do with men being dogs?Moonie said:Oh, I don't generally like staying on the phone long either, but when it's a boyfriend, that's a whole different animal!
I thought men were supposed to be pigs?TheStatutoryApe said:I didn't know you were into that sort of thing! Does this have something to do with men being dogs?
Moonbear said:Woo hoo! You got a second date! And long talks are good! I could talk for hours with my boyfriends, on the phone or in person. I just hope it's not long distance. If all keeps going well, you'll have to introduce us all to rocketgirl! :tongue2:
GeorginaS said:Go rocketboy! See? Courage.
This thread is almost giving me hope that that meeting new people thing might be kind of fun. I remember sitting up all night with someone I'd just me, talking non-stop about nothing and everything. What a great feeling.
rocketboy said:Hey guys, tell me what you think of this.
I take her out to late lunch/early supper (cuz that's the only time she's free tomorrow and we've agreed we must see each other). But before hand, I buy flowers, or a rose...and give them to the waiter to bring to her at the table, then I ask her to be mine.:!) :!)
What do you think? Will she melt?
The_Professional said:how long have you known this girl? might as well propose marriage to her. that way you don't waste time
rocketboy said:is it too much?
The_Professional said:too much too soon. it's okay to take her out for dinner dates. you always pay for the date, but the flowers/gifts come after 60 days.
she has to earn it y'know
No, it's so sweet. A single flower is perfect. Do you know what kind she likes? She will melt and she will remember this for a long time. It will be a great memory. I don't think it's too soon, if you are reading things right, sounds like you are.rocketboy said:is it too much?
Evo said:I still remember MANY years ago I had been visiting out of town for a few days and had met a guy and we'd had a couple of dates while I was there. Then it was time for me to fly back. Before I left, he took out a simple, herringbone gold necklace and fastened it around my neck and told me that it reminded him of me, "simple yet elegant". I've never forgotten him. :!)
Cause I found out he was married.:grumpy:The_Professional said:but you're no longer dating him
Pfft! Two months?! She'll think you're an insensitive, unromantic cad if you haven't given her any flowers in that amount of time. :tongue:The_Professional said:too much too soon. it's okay to take her out for dinner dates. you always pay for the date, but the flowers/gifts come after 60 days.
she has to earn it y'know
Moonbear said:Pfft! Two months?! She'll think you're an insensitive, unromantic cad if you haven't given her any flowers in that amount of time. :tongue:
Traditionally, you give the flower at the door, but I really like the idea of giving it at the restaurant. Somehow, I think it will make it more special because she didn't get it at the door and then isn't expecting it...flowers are more fun when you don't expect them. A white rose would be very appropriate.rocketboy said:ok, so do i give her them at the door or a single (white?) rose at dinner?
I like what you said about leaving the waiter out of it moonbear, she may feel embarrassed or pressured if he/she is there.
I'm thinking the rose at dinner...cuz if i give her a bouquet at the door her dad may come out with a shotgun...lol, just kidding, i hope.