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I am a sophomore in my undergraduate studies aiming to go to grad school. My journey so far has proven difficult as I essentially make straight B's in all math and physics courses with a few A's in random general education classes.
I feel as if I love part of physics, mainly its impact on society and the profound understanding it has provided to humans, but I can't seem to translate this love into school.
In the past two years I have been reading books and using introspective thought as to what allows a person to be a successful, high-gpa student. I know what I need to do but through some way I always fail to implement my action plan.
I skip lectures, I take shortcuts on homework to get it done without truly understanding it, I cannot pay attention in lectures even when well rested, nourished, and otherwise satiated, I stay up way too late, and my only attempts to understand the material occur 0-3 days before any exam. I realize when I do these things as I do them, but even when I fix them for a day, a week, or two, I always slip back into my terrible ways.
For example, I am enrolled in a standard multivariable calculus course where the homework grade is an extremely small amount of the total grade, I didn't attend lecture which I can't pay attention in or do any homework for 1/3 the course. The day before the exam I go to the library and study for 14 hours with breaks only to eat, reading the entire textbook's worth of reading, reading outside sources, and doing a plethora of practice problems all to get a B on the exam - of course that's nothing more or less than I expected. Had I simply gone to bed earlier, gotten even a modicum of knowledge from lectures, spent a little bit of time on the homework when it was assigned, and then studied for a few hours a day in the library 7 days before the exam, I could have easily obtained an A and a possible 100 %. The exams always seem easy to me in retrospect and I know I have talent, I simply fail to apply myself even in full knowledge that my methods won't work.
Christ, I got a 36 on the science ACT, so some portion of science must come naturally to me. I just feel like a spoiled brat, with potential but without a spine to use it, almost like some part of me is content with B's and an extremely unhealthy lifestyle.
The worst part about the situation is that I am not stressed, mad, or sad that I have a mediocre ~3.35 GPA, I feel nothing.
I don't post this thread seeking sympathy, I am simply wondering if anyone has manged to CHANGE themselves and turn around bad habbits deeply ingrained within them to succeed in this field or anything in life that was previously a road block to them. If so, how did you do it? Was it purely an act of willpower that I need to keep trying to find?
I'm not sure how long I should keep trying to change or if I should just cut my losses and get an engineering degree.
- Thanks in advance
I feel as if I love part of physics, mainly its impact on society and the profound understanding it has provided to humans, but I can't seem to translate this love into school.
In the past two years I have been reading books and using introspective thought as to what allows a person to be a successful, high-gpa student. I know what I need to do but through some way I always fail to implement my action plan.
I skip lectures, I take shortcuts on homework to get it done without truly understanding it, I cannot pay attention in lectures even when well rested, nourished, and otherwise satiated, I stay up way too late, and my only attempts to understand the material occur 0-3 days before any exam. I realize when I do these things as I do them, but even when I fix them for a day, a week, or two, I always slip back into my terrible ways.
For example, I am enrolled in a standard multivariable calculus course where the homework grade is an extremely small amount of the total grade, I didn't attend lecture which I can't pay attention in or do any homework for 1/3 the course. The day before the exam I go to the library and study for 14 hours with breaks only to eat, reading the entire textbook's worth of reading, reading outside sources, and doing a plethora of practice problems all to get a B on the exam - of course that's nothing more or less than I expected. Had I simply gone to bed earlier, gotten even a modicum of knowledge from lectures, spent a little bit of time on the homework when it was assigned, and then studied for a few hours a day in the library 7 days before the exam, I could have easily obtained an A and a possible 100 %. The exams always seem easy to me in retrospect and I know I have talent, I simply fail to apply myself even in full knowledge that my methods won't work.
Christ, I got a 36 on the science ACT, so some portion of science must come naturally to me. I just feel like a spoiled brat, with potential but without a spine to use it, almost like some part of me is content with B's and an extremely unhealthy lifestyle.
The worst part about the situation is that I am not stressed, mad, or sad that I have a mediocre ~3.35 GPA, I feel nothing.
I don't post this thread seeking sympathy, I am simply wondering if anyone has manged to CHANGE themselves and turn around bad habbits deeply ingrained within them to succeed in this field or anything in life that was previously a road block to them. If so, how did you do it? Was it purely an act of willpower that I need to keep trying to find?
I'm not sure how long I should keep trying to change or if I should just cut my losses and get an engineering degree.
- Thanks in advance