Conflicted Feelings: Moving On from High School

[franznietzsche]

You guys are approching this like a physics problem, then maybe I should explain it this way.all you need to know here is that opposites attract, and, That the angle of the dangle is directly proportionate to the heat of the meat! Just be yourself make her feel comfortable around you, if your not comfortable with yourself you better start there.; There is more to life then Physics, so go out and enjoy the world your studing so hard to understand mathmatically, and enjoy it physically!

Physics is to math, what sex is to masturbation.

That said, everything can be solved through physics, or careful cover up of "anomalous results."

 

[Chrono]

That said, everything can be solved through physics, or careful cover up of "anomalous results."

Physics does get me aroused, though.

 

[The_Professional]

Do you talk about sex when you first met a girl?

NO

Will this scare her away ?

YES

 

[amwbonfire]

Lol, that's kinda a silly question... You don't meet a girl and say "What do you want to talk about? Sex?"

 

[Smurf]

... I do...

 

[airbuzz]

Do you talk about sex when you first met a girl?
Will this scare her away ?

I tried to do like that some years ago. Just to do an investigation in women´s mind.
Obviously all the about 50 girls approached and talked about sex said NO, someone have also beaten me
So the answer is:
YES, i did it for fun, but NO, I don´t do it no more
NO, she will not be scared away, she will be very angry and she will beat you, so YOU WILL BE SCARED AWAY by her fury

 

[Chrono]

I just avoid the topic unless they bring it up. Once that happens, I make all sorts of, I think, funny innuendos.

 

[Polly]

I don't even know why I am checking this thread AND even responding in the way I am going to. The only way a man can get his way, is by pretending to be interested in the things she is interested in - anything like babies, flower arrangement, family life, decoration,the Oprah show, anything that serves to show that he is into loving and caring and is a man of great warmth and affection and is likely to commit to a relationship (commitment - big for girls). At all times and I mean at ALL times, do not let your true intention slip. He who can pull this off for long enough is likely to get his own way.
Now why am I even telling a bunch of guys how to chase girls?

 

[Math Is Hard]

The only way a man can get his way, is by pretending to be interested in the things she is interested in - anything like babies, flower arrangement, family life, decoration,the Oprah show...

WOW! Except for the Oprah show reference, I thought I had time-travelled back to 1957 for a minute.

 

[Evo]

WOW! Except for the Oprah show reference, I thought I had time-travelled back to 1957 for a minute.

I agree, except I don't even watch Oprah.

Pretending to be interested in things that the other likes is a very bad way to start out a relationship, it would work if you're looking for a one night stand, perhaps. Eventually the truth will come out and the results are never good.

 

[Chrono]

Pretending to be interested in things that the other likes is a very bad way to start out a relationship, it would work if you're looking for a one night stand, perhaps. Eventually the truth will come out and the results are never good.

I concur. Somehow, women will always find out the truth.

 

[The Bob]

I concur. Somehow, women will always find out the truth.

Yes, that is so true. Even if they beat it out of you or spend 7 hours and you give in finally.

The Bob (2004 ©)

 

[Arctic Fox]

I concur. Somehow, women will always find out the truth.

Hah! Try to find a girl who can even tell the truth...

 

[Polly]

This place is getting scary...*runs for mama*

 

[Chrono]

Yes, that is so true. Even if they beat it out of you or spend 7 hours and you give in finally.

I think the latter happens a lot more than the former.

 

[amwbonfire]

First they try and beat it out, often with a stick. If that doesn't work, they try putting on an adorable face... like this:

:shy:

And they say please soooo nicely...

Dammit! They always win!

 

[Chrono]

If that doesn't work, they try putting on an adorable face

They're like kittens with the face thing, I swear. Like Puss In Boots from Shrek 2.

 

[PrudensOptimus]

The girl is probably already married to someone else...

The guy is probably already in AA/rehab...

:D

A little update...

For the swedish girl, I am not sure what her current stat is... still goes to same school...

For Girl #1, she has moved to reside in Texas. I still read her online live journals, seems to be nothing more than her daily life.

For the other girl, who resides in Missouri, she is living also a happy life. I heard she is training to become a dental assistant.

For me, I am in rehab yes. lol, mental rehab with myself. After thinking, girls aren't worth it. Think about it,... STD... those so easily transmitable diseases. sigh.

 

[enigma]

After thinking, girls aren't worth it. Think about it,... STD... those so easily transmitable diseases. sigh.

Oh yes... that's a brilliant excuse.

The species has propagated just fine so far...

Let me guess... abstinence only sex ed?

 

[dekoi]

I don't like girls cause they have cooties.


edit: it seems so awkward to first discuss the concept of ethical values, the transcendental feeling of love, governmental conflicts, and ego-centricism and then type something like the top line.

 

[Chrono]

For me, I am in rehab yes. lol, mental rehab with myself. After thinking, girls aren't worth it. Think about it,... STD... those so easily transmitable diseases. sigh.

I've taken a break from chasing girls (still looking of course). This semester in school has been the hardest yet. I figured I should get this over with first.

 

[PrudensOptimus]

My mother has always taught me to let the girls chase you insofar as they will take the initiative of getting know you, that is when you know you have the power of gravitation.

 

[masudr]

Dont "spy" on her, especially using her female friends. Girls share EVERYTHING among themselves. Tell her how you feel. It has to be done. If she get's the wrong impression, you'll be digging yourself out of that hole for months.

 

[Evo]

May lightning strike me dead if I ever consider dating anyone again...ever.

I'm fed up.

 

[Smurf]

Evo, I've liked you from the minute I saw you, will you go out with me? Pleeeaaseeee.

 

[Evo]

Evo, I've liked you from the minute I saw you, will you go out with me? Pleeeaaseeee.

You have a death wish for me, eh?

 

[PrudensOptimus]

President Clinton visited us! Here are some pics i took:
http://www.hinst.net/~tom/album/clinton

 

[Evo]

President Clinton visited us! Here are some pics i took:
http://www.hinst.net/~tom/album/clinton

LOL, it IS your thread.

ARE THERE NO NORMAL MEN OUT THERE??

 

[Chrono]

May lightning strike me dead if I ever consider dating anyone again...ever.

I'm fed up.

I wouldn't mind dating your daughter, Evo.

 

[The Bob]

ARE THERE NO NORMAL MEN OUT THERE??

Depending on your definition of normal, I consider myself a normal male, if your definition is the same as mine.

The Bob (2004 ©)

 

[The_Professional]

May lightning strike me dead if I ever consider dating anyone again...ever.

I'm fed up.

Don't lose hope. The first one is free, the second one isn't

craigslist.org
match.com

 

[Math Is Hard]

Don't lose hope. The first one is free, the second one isn't

craigslist.org
match.com

Funny that you mentioned that. A friend of mine just got engaged to a woman he met through that eharmony site.
Personally, I have always been skeptical about those personality matching tests that the dating services tout, but heck, maybe there's something to it after all.

 

[The_Professional]

Funny that you mentioned that. A friend of mine just got engaged to a woman he met through that eharmony site.
Personally, I have always been skeptical about those personality matching tests that the dating services tout, but heck, maybe there's something to it after all.

I believe that gals have more of a shot than guys. Because you do the choosing. But like in business it's a numbers game, so the more you put yourself out there, the better your chances.

I'm very skeptical of e-harmony, it would be interesting to see more info on how many couple got married and/or still happily together.

 

[Poobel]

Man.. your school is freaking huge!

*offtop - I shoock hands with Bill Clinton back when he was President of USA. :P
Anyone can beat that?

 

[drag]

Tell her how you feel. It has to be done. If she get's the wrong impression, you'll be digging yourself out of that hole for months.

Can't view 70+ pages , but that's ussualy a very bad move.
Let her go there first. If she doesn't, at least you won't ruin the possibility
for less serious relations.