Is Language the Basis for Our Understanding of Relationships?

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In summary, the conversation discusses the concept of defining an object, such as a vase, based on its function and conventional usage. The argument is made that there is no inherent meaning to words beyond their conventional use and that definitions can change over time. The importance of having a specific and unambiguous definition is also mentioned.
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All that is needed to establish a vase as existing is the fact that it can perform a function in accordance with its definition. Names, it can hold and pour water.

Anyone who disagrees must explain why this is not a sufficient reason.
 
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What if I disagree on the function of a vase? You may argue that my vase does not exist because it does not suit your purpose and I may argue that your vase does not exist because it does not suit my purpose. On another hand, a third person may come in and throw both our vases and say their purpose was to shatter into a bunch of pieces, which doesn't suit either of our purposes!

cookiemonster
 
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Originally posted by cookiemonster
What if I disagree on the function of a vase? You may argue that my vase does not exist because it does not suit your purpose and I may argue that your vase does not exist because it does not suit my purpose. On another hand, a third person may come in and throw both our vases and say their purpose was to shatter into a bunch of pieces, which doesn't suit either of our purposes!

cookiemonster
The proper definition of a vase is the one first given to it by someone. After this point it is conventionally accepted as the definition.
 
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So what about vestigial organs (e.g. the appendix)? They served some kind of purpose in the past, so therefore they previously had a definition. They no longer serve a purpose and so have been redefined. Which definition is correct? The first or second? Do they cease to exist because they can no longer satisfy their primarily defined purpose?

Either way, it does not answer my question. Who's to say who defined it first? Whoever holds the patent? Whoever ran around Times Square screaming "I hereby define the purpose of this vase!"? What happens if the first definition is lost to time?

Additionally, what if I don't agree with that definition? What if I don't use the vase for that purpose and would never consider using the vase for such a purpose?

cookiemonster
 
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Originally posted by protonman
All that is needed to establish a vase as existing is the fact that it can perform a function in accordance with its definition. Names, it can hold and pour water.

Anyone who disagrees must explain why this is not a sufficient reason.
My beer mug also holds water. Is it also a vase?

My mouth also holds water...

A puddle also holds water...

Now, abstractly, you are right about the purpose of a definition, but clearly a definition must be extremely specific and unambiguous to be useful.
 
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Originally posted by cookiemonster
So what about vestigial organs (e.g. the appendix)? They served some kind of purpose in the past, so therefore they previously had a definition. They no longer serve a purpose and so have been redefined. Which definition is correct? The first or second? Do they cease to exist because they can no longer satisfy their primarily defined purpose?

Either way, it does not answer my question. Who's to say who defined it first? Whoever holds the patent? Whoever ran around Times Square screaming "I hereby define the purpose of this vase!"? What happens if the first definition is lost to time?

Additionally, what if I don't agree with that definition? What if I don't use the vase for that purpose and would never consider using the vase for such a purpose?

cookiemonster
The definition of anything is what is conventionally agreed upon. Because it is not inherent to the object, but based on convension, as conventional standards change so does the definition. The reason you establish the definition based on who firsted defined it is that you need a starting point. The point of my statements is that there is no inherent definition of an object. It is defined in relation to what is conventionally accepted. In western philosophy, this type of thinking can be found in Wittgenstein.
 
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Originally posted by russ_watters
My beer mug also holds water. Is it also a vase?

My mouth also holds water...

A puddle also holds water...

Now, abstractly, you are right about the purpose of a definition, but clearly a definition must be extremely specific and unambiguous to be useful.
Sure you mug or mouth can hold and pour water but that is not their primary function.

What my argument is an attack upon is the idea of some inherent meaning to words beyond their conventional use. For example, the word vase does not identify some kind of object that is inherently a vase from its own side, that is, exists independent of its parts. The only reason a particular object is a vase is because conventionally it is agreed upon that the object is a vase. There is nothing objectively 'out there' that is the vase independent of our labeling it so. There is no thing that exists independent of its parts that we can identify and say for sure that this is the vase.
 
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Originally posted by protonman
What my argument is an attack upon is the idea of some inherent meaning to words beyond their conventional use.

But if words have no inherent meaning beyond their conventional usage, how can children learn language? Can you ever learn the meaning of a single Chinese ideogram if you read all Chinese texts ever published? I very much doubt it. So there's got to be more to words than their usage.
 
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There is a certain elegent symmetry to the definition of words.

The more effort you expend in making the definition narrow, the more accurately that word can be used. At some point, though, it is no longer worthwhile to have a more narrow definition, and instead it is better to use combinations of words.

In this case, a vase is not just something that holds water. We have different words for vase, pitcher, bottle because they perform different funtions. We don't however, have different words for glass vases, cheap vases, blue vases etc.

This might just seem like common sense, but it doesn't always work this way. Does anybody here wear khakis? If they are different colors, they are blue work pants, or black work pants, but if they are khaki, they are not khaki work pants, they are just khakis.

If half of all the vases in the world were made of translucent pink glass, we would have a single word to call it. A vase of translucent yellow glass would still have a multi-word name, but the "pinkie" wold be a single word.

Njorl
 
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Originally posted by confutatis
But if words have no inherent meaning beyond their conventional usage, how can children learn language? Can you ever learn the meaning of a single Chinese ideogram if you read all Chinese texts ever published? I very much doubt it. So there's got to be more to words than their usage.

While words have no inherent meaning beyond convention, there are other forms of communication. There are meanings hard-wired into the human brain. The meaning of a smile, of eye-contact, of a hug etc. These are the tools used to bridge to the first words.

Njorl
 
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Originally posted by protonman
All that is needed to establish a vase as existing is the fact that it can perform a function in accordance with its definition. Names, it can hold and pour water.

Anyone who disagrees must explain why this is not a sufficient reason.
Are you trything to prove the existance of a vase, or its definition? Establishing the definition of something is a simple thing, proving the existence of a specific thing is not.
 
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Originally posted by confutatis
But if words have no inherent meaning beyond their conventional usage, how can children learn language?
The fact that people can learn different languages is an indication that the words are merely conventional. Otherwise all people would have the same word for father.
 
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Originally posted by protonman
The fact that people can learn different languages is an indication that the words are merely conventional. Otherwise all people would have the same word for father.

I wasn't talking about that; of course the six letters what make up the word 'father' are completely arbitrary. But isn't it also a fact that all languages have a word for what we in English call 'father'?

By the way, what we in English call 'father' happens to be the meaning of the word 'father'. That is not arbitrary at all.
 
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Originally posted by protonman
All that is needed to establish a vase as existing is the fact that it can perform a function in accordance with its definition. Names, it can hold and pour water.

And what if you fill the vase with concrete and let it set? Does the vase stop being a vase just because it can no longer hold water?

This seems like a trivial exercise in semantics to me.
 
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Originally posted by confutatis
I wasn't talking about that; of course the six letters what make up the word 'father' are completely arbitrary. But isn't it also a fact that all languages have a word for what we in English call 'father'?
Even animals have the ability to recognize their parents. The fact that that most cultures have a word for father is nothing special. What I am arguing against is an object that exists independent of its parts that is the referent of the word 'father'.
 
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Originally posted by Tom
And what if you fill the vase with concrete and let it set? Does the vase stop being a vase just because it can no longer hold water?

This seems like a trivial exercise in semantics to me.
I'm with you on this one...what if it is a hollowed-out TV with water in it, it is a vase?
 
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Even animals have the ability to recognize their parents. The fact that that most cultures have a word for father is nothing special. What I am arguing against is an object that exists independent of its parts that is the referent of the word 'father'.

New borns does not have the ability to recognize their parents.

The word father is nothing special, but it does not mean that there can not be an interpretation of it.

An object that exists independent from its parts only occurs when its parts are learned from the senses. Seeing an object and remembering the word that associates with the object classifies the object to be that specific word. If another person were to look at a different object, and associate the same word to it, what would be the outcome?
Once the word is said, it will be recalled to be that object. Different people will interpret only the object that they have learned. An object is defined by its shape, size, orientation, texture, etc...

If I were to name an unknown part, such as a $!#$!@, only a selected few would understand what it is. People who do not understand, will say that it does not exist? But it does to those who understand.

Even if a word were accepted conventionally, there will still be a different interpretation of it. Everyones' brains are different from one another.

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Now, back to the topic.

It is true that a vask can be defined by the specific functions. However, it can also be defined by its physical appearance.
The term existing is too vague. I can have an object that looks like a vask, but never know its function. It "exists" solely because of our interpretation of what it is, and not primarily because of its function.
 
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New borns does not have the ability to recognize their parents.
Yes they do because they have memory.
 
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Yes they do because they have memory.

Sorry protonman... I think I should have been more clear on what I have meant.

A newly born animal, even with a memory capacity, does not have the capability to recognize its own parents without being taught who the animal's parents is. It can recognize its parents after it has been taught.

What i was referring to when I quoted "New borns does not have the ability to recognize their parents.", was when the new born had just been born (hence the term "new born"), before it can gain any information on who its parents are.
 
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Zero said:
I'm with you on this one...what if it is a hollowed-out TV with water in it, it is a vase?

my view, is that if you were to change an object, then you have every right to strip it of its original definition if it no longer satisfied the criteria, and at the end of the day, no definition is perfect, as nothing is abslute in this case, all relative.
Even the english language is composed of words which are all defined by other words, which are defined by other words etc etc. so it all self references.
I'm not so sure that language is a good way to illustrate logic really, but I could be missing something.

Martin
 
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So, the first original question was posed upon the existence of an object with its dependancies on its own definition. And its definition as stated was: a) A vase can hold water, and b) A vase can pour water. I tend to think that the very first definition was rather vague, as I can specify a hollow TV or a mug to have a such definition.

And as somebody else mentioned, if Vase was to be given a very specific definition, primarily, there also exists another object that can also follow its specific details. So, do we need to generalise sometings in here?

Also, I am with Molydood with this one in saying, "a language is not a good way to illustrate logic". This follows my idea of language being bounded by 'near'-perfect preciseness. A near is never certain to be clear.

I guess, my thoughts on the very first statement (of this thread) is that equivalence in existence of objects can also exist, thus, a definition is never restricted to one and only one object. This also means that your logic can be translated as both true and false simultaneously.

David (interesting thread, got me thinking for a while)
 
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Tom Mattson said:
And what if you fill the vase with concrete and let it set? Does the vase stop being a vase just because it can no longer hold water?

This seems like a trivial exercise in semantics to me.

Not trivial at all. As Protonman pointed out, Wittgenstein held the view that meaning is due to usage. We really shouldn't say convention, that in a way implies an arbitrary fixed choice. What is important is that we don't derive meaning from the word itself, but in the way it is used. Langauge is dynamic.

For example, suppose I call out "Water". Am I asking for water? Am I referring to the fact that I have found water? Am I answering a question? These questions can not be answered due to a lexicographical definition of "water" nor by a propositional theory which relates names with objects. These questions can only be answered by a theory which also takes into account psychologistic semantics.

If you filled a vase with concrete and let it set, I'm not sure what I'd call it. I don't think that is an extremely unsettling example, though. I think it just relates to the unusual occurrence of a vase filled with concrete.
 
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protonman said:
All that is needed to establish a vase as existing is the fact that it can perform a function in accordance with its definition. Names, it can hold and pour water.

Anyone who disagrees must explain why this is not a sufficient reason.

Words only have demonstrable meaning according to their function in a given context. As every else has already pointed out, any number of things can hold water which are not normally called vases, and any number of things are called vases which cannot hold water. (Personally, I have a vase of dried flowers and really have no idea whether or not it can hold water.)

Words have both broad and specific definitions, both of which are extremely useful. The heap paradox, for example, applies to such vague terms as baldness, height, etc. When exactly can a person be considered bald or short? There are no set standards, but people make perfectly good use of the terms all the time anyway. Likewise, your definition of a vase is a specific one, but without a specific context it is useless.
 
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hehe the reason why young animals are able to identify their parents is usually the first thing they see when they open their eyes,or by the scent(which is another mystery).So when you go close to it,it will think you will provide the care for the first days of its life.And in our Human language,we define it as Parental care,of which does not depict any emotions,it is just that communicating became written language,of which the initial form of it all was the teamwork to survive in stone ages,where we were the bottom of the food chain.When we began writing,we then took it down and develop further intelligence through language(you could say that this was a different path from communicating).I cannot answer protons argument on other ways of defining without language,but,what we feel with our senses and warmth through the things we experience, need not words. I suppose it is what he is looking for.
 

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Language plays a crucial role in our understanding of relationships. It allows us to communicate our thoughts, feelings, and experiences with others, which is essential for building and maintaining relationships. Through language, we can express our needs, desires, and boundaries, which are all important aspects of any relationship.

2. Can relationships exist without language?

While some basic relationships, such as those between infants and their caregivers, can exist without language, more complex relationships require language for communication and understanding. Without language, it would be challenging to establish and maintain meaningful relationships as we would not be able to express our thoughts and feelings effectively.

3. How does language impact the quality of relationships?

The quality of our relationships is heavily influenced by our ability to use language effectively. Good communication skills, which are largely dependent on language, are essential for building and maintaining healthy relationships. Without effective communication, misunderstandings and conflicts can arise, leading to strained or even broken relationships.

4. Is language the only factor that affects our understanding of relationships?

No, language is not the only factor that influences our understanding of relationships. Non-verbal cues, such as body language and tone of voice, also play a significant role in how we interpret and understand relationships. Additionally, our past experiences, cultural background, and personal beliefs can also affect our understanding of relationships.

5. How can we use language to improve our relationships?

We can use language to improve our relationships by actively listening, using clear and respectful communication, and being mindful of our tone and body language. It is also essential to use language to express our needs and boundaries and to engage in open and honest communication with our loved ones to build trust and understanding in the relationship.

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