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In your opinion what is the best thing to do to overcome a disappointment in love ?
I had heard that story before. It's a nice story.jedishrfu said:Welcome to PF!
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There's a story about two monks who spot a woman in distress trying to cross a river and the senior monk decides to carry her to the other side. After a few hours of walking, the junior monks asks...
http://www.kindspring.org/story/view.php?sid=63753
Great story!jedishrfu said:There's a story about two monks who spot a woman in distress trying to cross a river and the senior monk decides to carry her to the other side. After a few hours of walking, the junior monks asks...
http://www.kindspring.org/story/view.php?sid=63753
adamw1987 said:I believe that when a story ends often blame lies with both
adamw1987 said:anything I just want to say that I am increasingly convinced that the end of a love story usually depends on both sides
adamw1987 said:In your opinion what is the best thing to do to overcome a disappointment in love ?
That is wonderful! I really liked that one.jim hardy said:Tell a cashier you hope all her customers are friendly
jedishrfu said:
adamw1987 said:I believe that when a story ends often blame lies with both
Pepper Mint said:She told me that everyone had something they hated most,e.g the smell of durian, one's sweat, pisses, and even feces, etc; so if I disliked someone, I could pull out something I had as a keepsake of him and dirty it with the disgusting smell, and sniff it, I would then puke a lot and soon get rid of the guy out of my head. One of the worst college silly suggestions I ever had!
adamw1987 said:In your opinion what is the best thing to do to overcome a disappointment in love ?
This is very true. I used to have to work with a married guy who had a problem with his decayed teeth. I never think he washed his mouth before going to work and he always acted naturally as if everyone had to endure his dirtiness. Even after he did, bacteria in his decayed teeth would regrow and cause the same bad smell in his breath. Every time we had a talk, I always tried to sit 2 or 3 meters away from him but was still unable to breathe. And after the meeting, I went to the bathroom still having the feeling of his mouth smell in my throat. How disgusting! I have no idea how his wife could take it every night. This is why I agree with you: Love conquers everything, physically and mentally.DiracPool said:...
That one always works in an emergency, but the sad truth is that we don't really want to ruin our image of someone we're infatuated with with such chicanery. What we really want is to continue to idolize them and have our affection requited. Very hard to control that, though. It's a mixed up, muckled up, shook up world when it comes to love.
Moving on from a bad breakup takes time and self-reflection. It's important to allow yourself to grieve and feel your emotions, but also to focus on self-care and engaging in activities that bring you joy. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and consider seeking therapy to work through your feelings.
Yes, disappointment in love can affect future relationships if it is not addressed and processed. It's important to reflect on past relationships and identify any patterns or red flags to avoid in future relationships. It's also important to communicate openly and honestly with potential partners about your past experiences and any fears or concerns you may have.
Yes, it is normal to feel a range of emotions after being disappointed in love, including anger and resentment. It's important to acknowledge and validate these emotions, but also to work through them in a healthy way. Engaging in therapy or talking to a trusted friend or family member can help you process and cope with these feelings.
Learning to trust again after being hurt in a relationship takes time and patience. It's important to work on building trust with yourself first by setting boundaries and listening to your intuition. It's also important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner and to give them the benefit of the doubt. It may also be helpful to seek therapy to work through any underlying trust issues.
Yes, disappointment in love can often lead to self-doubt and low self-esteem. It's important to remember that a relationship does not define your worth as a person. Engaging in self-care and surrounding yourself with positive influences can help boost your self-esteem. It may also be helpful to work with a therapist to address any negative thought patterns and build self-confidence.